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Yes, but no. There are some names that everyone would expect to be shortened. Like people would assume if your name is Thomas or Michael that you go by Tom or Mike.

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But it's quite possible to not go by a nickname. I have found that people will call your child in whatever way you introduce them. If I introduce Ben as Benjamin, people will either call him Benjamin or ask if I call him Ben. My husband's little brothers are Joshua and Daniel, not Josh and Dan, and they're introduced by their full names and people call them by their full names.