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[Opinions] Sophie as a nickname? :s
Would Sophie/Sofie be okay to use as a nickname for Sophia/Sofia? [Not certain on the spelling yet]
They are two different names, I know but I find that it'd be a compromise with my boyfriend on the names. I want Sophia or Sofia [He prefers the F spelling] but he wants us to use Sophie instead because it's two syllables...easier to say he says.So I thought that maybe having the name Sophia with the occasional nickname Sophie would work.OR... Should I just name her Sophie instead?I also worry that Sophia would be shortened if we didn't give her a nickname as I hear many who are named this get called nicknames. [Not 100% certain though] I am not a fan of nicknames for the most part to be honest...even though it can happen just natually.I know the names are popular but I really love them and I am not one to care about things like popularity. Sorry to those who are sick of seeing this name

This message was edited 12/24/2011, 4:46 PM

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Of course it works. When people think of nicknames for Sophia, Sophie is the one that springs to mind.
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Sure, it works. Actually, I don't know any Sophias who aren't called Sophie by their friends and families. I slightly prefer Sophie on its own, but Sophia/Sofia, nn Sophie, is gorgeous too.
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I see no reason why Sophie couldn't be used as a nn for Sophia... it's pretty much right in the name. While I'm not a fan of either name, I think you could go either way on this one. Side note: I call my friend's daughter Sophia Fi-chan because her bro used to caller her Fia when she was a baby and names of children often get shortened in Japan and then get chan tagged on the end rather than san... can do that w/ adults too if they're close enough friends. Thus, Sophia wound up being Fi-chan... but just to me. 1 way to reduce the nn trend is to make a habit of addressing her by both 1st and mn together and then it can get shortened to just the fn... I've found that very few of the people who've met me after I started going by both fn and mn try to shorten my fn anymore. Thus, she could be addressed by Sophia Jane or Sophia Renee or Sophia Joelle or whatever suits your fancy and then the "nn" would be just calling her Sophia.
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We call our Sophia Sophie...and also Fifi. I personally don't think of Sophie as its own name, I think of it as simply a shortening of Sophia.
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Fifi reminds me of a poodle lol sorry.
I love Sophie as a first name too (just Sophia more)
Sophie is a real legit first name. French form of Sophia.... Not a nickname only name. It didn't start out as a nickname.
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Her formal whole name is Sophia Ophelia Seraphina, and it's the repetitious 'fee' sound in the middles of all three that led me to call her Fifi.
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Wow, that is an awesome combo!! Leads me to ask: what are you other kids' full names?
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Ooo, Gideon Brody is very unexpected! Does Gideon have a nickname? I've loved Gideon, nn Gidders, for a while now. :)I find it interesting that two of your kids go by their middle names. Is there a reason for that?
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Sophie seems like a pretty natural, automatic shortening of Sophia...
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I'd just name her Sophie. It's perfectly acceptable as a full name, and doesn't need to be short for anything really. Sophia is nice but if your boyfriend is always going to call her Sophie anyway, you might as well just go with Sophie. Sophie is just as likely to be shortened as Sophia - they both might get called Soph or something like that but it's not inevitable.
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He's not always going to always call her Sophie because he doesn't know I'm considering it for a occasional nickname for him... I wanted just to name her Sophia and him Sophie. He let me win and have Sophia... So that's what we are naming her but I felt a bit bad because he liked Sophie more. So I thought to make it a nickname for him to occasionally use so that we both get what we want:)I don't mind Soph, that's totally fine with me but Sophie would not be 24/7 used. Just once in a while.
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Personally, I would pick one or the other. As you said, they are different versions of the same name. I find it extremely silly when people use names like Julie, Sophie, or Marie as nicknames for Julia, Sophia, and Maria. Why would you name your child one thing and then call them a legitimate, full first-name from another language or culture? Perhaps it's because I'm a French-speaker, but Sophia does not sound any more "mature" or "complete" than Sophie, imo. I think both Sophia and Sophie are beautiful names. They are popular, but you can't go wrong with such classic names. I'll admit that I have a slight preference for Sophie, but Sophia is gorgeous too. Both of them are perfect without any nicknames.
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My boyfriend speaks fluent french as well...maybe that is too why he prefers Sophie a bit more, I don't know lol. but I do know they are two different names... I only thought that maybe it'd be a good compromise so that we could have both.No doubt I will be going with Sophia or the spelling Sofia [As I said in my original post, Not sure yet of which spelling but that will be decided later between him and I]I personally love both... the only difference is that I love the A sound at the end but I do love both names. I want to name her Sophia but who knows... when I look at her face she might be a "Sophie"... I will maybe have a straight answer before hand but I will know for sure when I see her little face. :)
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I work at a dance studio and have seen a lot of Sophia/Sofia/Sophies come trhough recently and only one of them ever had a nickname (Sofia who went by Fifi). They sometimes get call just "Soph" but only as an occational pet name. So I wouldn't really worry about Sophia being shortened. It is not something with a set series of nicknames, nor is it a mouthful to say or write. Naming her Sophia and then just leaving off the "a" every once and a while is certainly an option; but if she is just going to be Sophie most of the time I don't see the point of even having Sophia on the birth certificate since Sophie is a perfectly beautiful name on its own.
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No it would be Sophia most the time. If she was to have a nickname it'd be only occasionally said as like i said in my original post...i for the most part do not like nicknames. I only am asking because he preferred that name over Sophia because it was less syllables .I am totally fine with just Soph if he really wanted on:)
I am also glad to hear that the sophias you've come across aren't with shortened names, it makes me feel a bit better.
I don't don't really want to shorten her name or give a nickname. I really only want her called Sophia...
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Agreed.

This message was edited 12/24/2011, 9:30 PM

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Yeah. I know at least one Sophia "Sophie", and I was under the impression that it was pretty common. Sophia "Sophie" is also good in my opinion because Sophia sounds more mature, so she'd have a less 'cute' name to go by if she ever felt like it (unlike Sophie, which is pretty but very little-girl cute).
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I think Sofia is prettier-looking than Sofie, but she will probably be called Sofie whether there's an "a" or not. You could always call her "Soph"/"Sof". And I prefer "Sophie" over "Sofie". Just my opinion.
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Well we haven't figured out which spelling and it'll depend on certain things. for now It's Sophia/Sophie but we don't know for sure yet... We'll choose what we think will be best and preferWhy would Sophia be called Sophie whether there was an "a" at the end or not? I don't get that to be honest.. nicknames aren't 24/7. :s
lol I'm not sure if I'm just being daft but I don't get that.

This message was edited 12/24/2011, 6:55 PM

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I would probably do the same thing if I was going to use these names. I like the formality of Sophia, but Sophie is cute for every day.
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Sophie/Sofie definitely works as a nickname for Sophia/Sofia. I see no problem with using it as a nickname.
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