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[Opinions] Ra-fa-EL
I feel strongly about this. Never ra-fee-el ... that is just wrong.
Stress the final syllable, but not too strongly.I know a white American child named Rafael. He's my son's closest friend.Rah- more like bar, but sometimes like bat, whichever - there's room for accent and preference there, in American English.
Fah- like in bar. No option to pronounce it FEE
(y)EL - a small Y sound appears between the vowels in American English.American English can also make the name sound more like Rah-FELL and almost like Ra-FILE ... it's actually Rah-(fa)EL but without the Y sound, so the second A gets left out more.I hear people call him Roffy-Yell often, and it bugs me. It bugs him, too - he is learning Spanish so he's aware there is no way there can be an EE sound in his name. Rafe (RAYF) to me is a cooler Ralph, and has nothing whatsoever to do with the name Rafael. Annoyingly artificial as a nickname (please just name him Rafe, it's a full name). Rafi (rhyme either coffee or taffy) works. Raf would work.I prefer Rafael but Raphael is nice.- mirfak
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I was just going by the pronunciations this site provides and by what I myself have heard the most. Of the 3 pronunciations the site shows, 2 have the "fee" sound there But this is why I worry about it's use IRL, no one can agree on a pronunciation!I like Rafe fine on its own too, but with my SO's last name the FN/LN combo sounds a bit like "refried beans" ...ok not literally but close enough to where my mind goes there immediately
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lol, refried beans!Wow, didn't see that BtN had the bad (IMO) pronunciation there.I think you're right, it is a little bit of a problem using it in real life. But it's not so big that it should stop anyone from using the name, IMO.
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