I like
Gwendolyn. I like
Gwendolen even more, because the -lyn part seems dated to me, and makes me think of -lyn endings on names like Jerilyn and
Gracelyn. I don't think of it as classical, but it's heroic-ish and that's as good.
Gwendolen seems crisp and friendly and, yeah, pretty but pretty like green leaves or shiny agates, rather than pretty like phlox or lace. I like
Gwen more than
Wendy -
Wendy is childish to me.
Gwen is youthful but not childish.
I don't think
Josephine goes with
Gwendolyn at all. That might be part of why the sister set didn't poll well - it's a clash.
Gwendolen is an originally feminine hero-name and slightly "exotic" due to the Welsh Gw-.
Josephine is just a really common male Biblical name with a feminizing ending qualifying it, super conservative and somewhat prissy IMHO.
- mirfak