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[Opinions] Mariposa
A comment in the Lounge reminded me of this... My grandmother is called Grandma Butterfly.
She adores butterflies. She has several butterfly tattoos, butterfly-themed trinkets and furniture all over her house, and wears butterfly jewelry or clothes with butterflies on them daily. Years ago we were thinking of using Mariposa as a name or middle name for a girl. It is technically the Spanish word for "butterfly". So what do you all think? Would Mariposa make a decent name for a girl?
Do you think it would have served well to honor Gram (real name Lila)?______________________________________________
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I used to like Mariposa with possible nn Posey. Now for some reason whenever I see it I think of marscarpone (and I didn't know it was used as a derogatory word for gay men before), so that's off-puting. I still think it's an ok name, but I think I'd actually prefer just using Butterfly in English, as a middle name...or something that's associated with butterflies but not as directly linked (like, you could maybe use Zinnia because people plant zinnias to attract butterflies). I also really like Lila by itself.
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I like it an GPish way. I don't think it's really useable and it's a stretch to use it for honoring purposes, stick with Lila or a similar sounding name.
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I didn't know about the slang term either, but I don't like it because a butterfly's an insect. It's not symbolic enough to compensate for that, as far as I'm concerned. Not even if I count the grandparent's obsession. heh. If it were me being named I'd rather have the name Lila.
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Eek, no. It's a very derogatory slang term for a gay man in many Latin American countries. I just can't get past that association. Lila is way better.
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I don't see anything wrong with it. I've never heard of it being slang for anything but that might just be the area I'm from. Then again, it might be a similar word. Either way, I'd check. I think it's a name that maybe not everyone has heard of before but at the same time, it's still very usable.
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As far as butterfly names go, I've always preferred Papillon, but I think Mariposa is very sweet. I think it might be too precious in the first spot (my opinion could always change upon meeting one, though), but I think it'd make a dynamite middle name.
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omg your grandma sounds rad! I want to be a tattooed grandma. Mariposa is a pretty word, but I think it's also a slang term for a gay person? And Lila is so much prettier. I'd use Lila Butterfly or something...or Lila+ Butterfly name, like Lila Erynnis, Lila Eufala, Lila Hesperia, Lila Junonia, Lila Thessalia, etc.
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Is it really the slang for that!? I had no idea. Lila is adorable, and totally usable I think. I actually did make the combo Lila Anna Blue once, since Anna Blue is a tiny blue butterfly that likes Asters, which grow near Grams house.
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Lila Anna Blue is amazingly cute and pretty! I love how it just bops along, like a butterfly landing on flowers, I can totally see it.
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