I'd enforce a chosen pronunciation. I consider it a direct insult if someone refuses to use a correct pronunciation of my name after being corrected more than two or three times (exceptions are made based on phonetic abilities). To me it's no different than calling a woman named
Sally as
Sammy and expecting her to just accept it. It's rude.
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