I take it in stride! It's almost never meant in a harmful way, it's just hard to treat it like it's new every time someone says it. I know a few women who go by
Becky, and they're all very much unlike the '
Becky' portrayed in songs and TV.
“Fairy tales are more than true; not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten.”
― Neil Gaiman