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[Opinions] Temperance
I’ve seen a noticeable amount of nods to Prudence and Patience on here, but I was wondering what are some opinions of Temperance? I actually think it’s rebellious. It should be worn ironically, as if it even needs to be said.Combos?Sparrow
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I like it, but because I think the Temperance Movement sucked, and I wouldn't trust my daughter to wear it ironically, I wouldn't use it. I like the nickname Tempe.
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I think the virtue of temperence is interesting and valuable, but I think it gets a bad rap for being tied to the Temperence movement, which was more about abstinence from alcohol rather than moderation. I would not use Prudence, Patience, or Temperence as names although I wouldn't mind using a name with those meanings. Temperence according to Webster's:
- 1. Moderation; particularly, habitual moderation in regard to the indulgence of the natural appetites and passions; restrained or moderate indulgence;... temperance in eating and drinking is opposed to gluttony and drunkenness, and in other indulgences, to excess.- 2. Patience; calmness; sedateness; moderation of passion.
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Yeah, I didn’t realize before seeing these comments how strongly tied to sobriety it was. I just think of it as balancing things and being level-headed and not extreme.
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Way too Puritan and slightly tacky. While it definitely is good to be temperate with alcohol, having a name that means that isn’t exactly desirable. Now that I think about it, I don’t like Prudence or Patience either.
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I like the sounds, but I fear it's too closely associated with that one TV character (I've never seen Bones, but I know the character's name is Temperance). Also, naming a girl "moderation" doesn't sit well with me.
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Nothing wrong with being temperate, in either alcohol use or in behavior in general. But the name is butt-ugly and I think the only reason anybody even thinks of it as a name now is because of Temperance Brennan's character.
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I'm practically tt - just don't enjoy the stuff, no principles or problems - but if I'd been named Temperance I think it might well have driven me to drink. Just to prove I could ...
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Don't like it
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I immediately think of Temperance Brennan from the show "Bones", but I did have a friend in high school whose mom's name is Temperance.
I do really like the sound (plus it's another less popular name you can get the nickname Emmy from, which is a win in my book)Temperance Elena
Temperance Ariel
Temperance Olive
Temperance Eloise
Temperance Lilia
Temperance June
Temperance Clara
Temperance Willow
Temperance Luna
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I think it's fun, but Tempy is so hypothetical - like what an awkward syllable for a name to land on, it's so billowy and fragile. I'd probably get used to it.Oh you know what. My next door neighbor had a dog named Tempest, frequently Tempy, and it sounded dumb every time he said it.Temperance is a fun virtue. I think about it a lot. I don't necessarily think of it ironically.
Temperance Justice haha
Temperance Sinclair
Temperance Quill
Temperance MariahThis is making me think of Esperance, an old fashioned word for Hope I think.

This message was edited 7/29/2020, 8:55 PM

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I do like Esperance. It has a wispy, elegant feel to it.
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LOVE Esperance!I've been thinking about it a lot lately. I love that it's an antiquated word!

This message was edited 7/30/2020, 7:13 AM

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Yes, indeed. In the second job I ever had, one of the managers was a very tough unmarried lady named Esperance. Her father had been the principal of a local teacher training college, and in honour of his daughter he had one of the women's residences named Esperance after her.
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