I love Esmé. It's a warm, dusty pink colour. I pronounce it EHS-may, regardless of the spelling. Esmé > Esmée > Esme > Esmee > Esmae. I'm from Poland.
masculine list:
https://www.behindthename.com/pnl/191050/124079feminine list:
https://www.behindthename.com/pnl/191050/124080