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[Opinions] Yet another Birth Announcement apparently
There has been a lot of babies apparently lately in my circles. No trolling, real baby I promise. My best friend's other friend had her baby this weekend and the name is... Dartanyan Joseph. I have never heard of this name before and idk how she managed to find it. Input? I'm kind of just stunned by it more than reactive.Update: it is apparently the 4th musketeer of The Three Musketeers trio (spelled D'Artagnan for this character) & this was picked because he is a 4th born child. Her late brother also had 3 Musketeers as his favorite candy bar. *the Joseph in the name* Edit: lesser known was removedAlso I have been noticing that more and more the honoring middles are getting more popular again is it just me? Seems like every baby has one these days. It feels like I'd have to pick my favorite people just to stay in style.Please rate my "Names I would Use" list & "Backup Favorites" list. Feel free to rate some of my other lists too if you have the time.
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This message was edited 6/25/2022, 9:46 PM

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I’d use Joseph as a middle name for a boy potentially since its a family surname. I actually kinda like it.Dartanyan is strange and quite frankly a tad ugly. Dartanyan Joseph is just decent. I never even heard of it until today. The 4th musketeer? Pfft. I don’t have a problem with honoring names. They’re fine. I don’t know what people have against it but they’d prefer their child to have their “own” names.
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The lesser known muskateer?! He's kind of the protagonist.I think it's cool (they're both names I liked as a kid) but about as geeky as naming a child Anakin or Danaerys. Or it's like Jordy, Deshawn, Dante, Darcy, Canyon.The reasoning is funny, though. Unless their other kids are named Athos, Porthos, Aramis, and they have a cat named Snickers, the "4th child" and candy bar explanations seem a random afterthought.

This message was edited 6/25/2022, 4:23 PM

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ITA it seems like the "4th child" and candy bar things are just an after-the-fact rationalization, for using a name they liked because it had an image and sound they liked. From the screen, not from literature. Like Darcy and Dante.

maybe I'm projecting my own shallowness but since you said it too, it seems we're that much more likely to be correct.
Want to see the sibling names.
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The candy reference, especially, is so embarrassingly silly I'm surprised they even mentioned it to people. I mean, come on; what would they have done if the favorite candy was Krackel or Twix or, god help us all, Mounds? They could easily get away with the movie/book reference (though the fact they misspelled Dartagnan doesn't make it hold a whole lot of water) but the candy bar thing is something too dumb for adults to say out loud like it's sincere.
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Well I did get a good laugh at the idea of a Mounds Candy named child at least
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Idk I am mostly unfamiliar with the literary reference beyond general pop culture.
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Okay? It's fine of course, and maybe it's caused by marketing weirdness or how it's been talked about based on something like actors' popularity; I just find it surprising if anyone knows the names of the others but not the central character...it's like hearing 'Simba, the lesser known Disney lion'. :D

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The part about it being a lesser known musketeer was my own personal interpretation of what was meant due to my lack of knowledge on the subject and not what was said of the parties. The snarkiness is unwarranted, thank you.
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I responded to your assertion. I think it was fair to mention the phrasing (which was surprising and mildly amusing me? Lots of incongruencies are amusing, and I don't think that's always rude to express? I tried to be obvious I wasn't criticizing you for not knowing and that I don't know what exact pop culture reference you based it on) as part of commenting on the pop culture context of it as name. Like, it's not a big deal at all, but if D'Artagnon was an obscure or minor character within the story/movies (or likely to be assumed to be, which I wasn't dismissing out of hand? people surprise me), it would change name perception to me.

This message was edited 6/25/2022, 10:05 PM

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My only knowledge of the subject is the name of the team, the Three Musketeers and the mental image of men in feathered hats. So logically I assumed a 4th musketeer must be an obscure character since THREE is in the name itself.. Glad you got a good laugh at my expense over false feelings of grandeur over such a meaningless passing comment said in order to try to help build context. Not trying to start drama. But you are giving me a lot of unnecessary grief over this. Sorry for not having knowledge on all classic literary characters offhand.
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I don't think anyone is laughing at you.
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You've misunderstood what I think is funny (we both know D'Artagnon isn't a title character, that's why it's funny - but still I'd wonder, 'how would one know that', not because it's life changing info, but I'd be curious); it's obvious to me because of the wrong assumption you're continuing to make about my feelings and also my reaction wasn't about literary knowledge (my liking of the name originated from the 90s movie - it's goofy, and I don't feel special for having seen it nor do I think worse of anyone for not seeing it). I tried to explain because I *don't* want to give you unnecessary grief. Oh well.I didn't know it was a team. (Eta: oops, I was thinking like a sports team. But if you just mean a group of friends/coworkers, nevermind. And actually this kind of misunderstanding is similar to what I found funny about your meaningless passing comment.)

This message was edited 6/26/2022, 12:38 AM

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Is it a version of D'Artagnan, maybe?I think honoring middle names have always been common. I have one myself, and I was born in the early 80's. I know a lot of people from different age groups who have them, too.
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Yeah honoring names are far from new. Some people even use them as a first name for their child.
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Yes it is just updated the input on what I was told for the name pick origin.
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