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[Opinions] What do you think of as “grandparents names”?
by Francisinfp5w4
1/31/2024, 7:13 AM
In my case, in the case of Korean names, I recognized names that end with ja or names containing Sook, Sun, Ok, Myeong as grandparents's name. And in the case of English names, I recognized names that are have comeback, such as Alice and Evelyn, and those that have not comeback, such as Gertrude and Bertha, names popular during World War II like Barbara and Phyllis, mid-20th century names like Brenda and Debbie, as grandparents's name.(And now that I think about it, old names are trending these days, and I guess I'm one of them. I really like (next-generation) grandparent names like Jennifer, April, Jason, Heidi, Julie, Holly, Michelle, Jeffrey, Erica, Brian, Darcy, Scott, Christine, Dawn, Jacqueline, Heath, Stacy, Kelly, Heather, Jesse, Dana, Leslie, Kimberly, Amy, Robin, Erin, Denise, Jeremy, Monica, Shannon, Bridget, Renee, Wendy... (It was a joke. Names from the 60's to 70's are not popular now.))Edit-The comments on this post made me reflect on my own ageist prejudice. In the end, most names become the names of grandparents over time, and that doesn't mean the name becomes bad. From now on, I have decided to refrain from using the expression old or old-fashioned when I feel that the name are not my style or when I do not like this. And I apologize for using such expressions.

This message was edited 2/2/2024, 5:55 AM

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- Amoret   +3
2/1/2024, 2:34 AM
My grandparents names are timeless I think (Elizabeth, Adriana, JW) except for my grandfather Pete’s name. I still see popular names like Frank, Arthur, Oscar, Theodore, Reggie, Chester & Florence, Evelyn, Ada, Mabel, Edith, Beatrice as grandparents names (and should have kept so).Having worked with elderly I have most often encountered Mary, Joan, Doris, Annie, Jos (female, nickname), Hannah & John, Nicholas, Theodore, Albert, Leo (so many Leo’s!)

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- Francisinfp5w4   +2
2/1/2024, 3:12 AM
Thank you. I still see most have comeback old names as grandparents names too.

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- Amoret   +1
2/1/2024, 4:53 AM
I thought from my perspective. My parents are grandparents I suppose 😅 Grandparents that are my parents age are: Martin, Will, Petra, Ida, Nanette, Pauline, Josephine, Nell, Evelyn, Hank, Elisabeth, Hellen, Intisar, Marianne.
- Francisinfp5w4
2/1/2024, 5:05 AM
Thank you.
- JKarolien   +1
2/1/2024, 1:44 AM
In the Netherlands every very Dutch, very tradtional name: Cornelius, Gijsbert, Johannes, Teunis / Cornelia, Johanna, Theodora
It feel like it was about 45 years ago (so the 80s) that teh Dutch branched out in terms of newer more modern names.

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- Francisinfp5w4
2/1/2024, 1:45 AM
Thank you.
- LydiaZhang   +1
1/31/2024, 5:49 PM
- Francisinfp5w4
1/31/2024, 5:52 PM
Thank you.
- jonesilove   +2
1/31/2024, 4:52 PM
Jeff, Kathy, Michelle (or other variations), Stephanie, Mark, Randall, Jim, Robert, Richard, Tim, Patricia, Debbie, Donna, Linda, Sandy, Lori, Sharon, Tracy, Craig, Todd, Glen, Ray, Duane, Carol, Bradley, Elaine, Jerry, Gail, Joan, JoAnn, Jodi, Gary, Colleen, Joyce, Keith, Terry/ Terri, Sue, Roger, Darcy, Phil, Paul.I notice that people who were teens in the 80s or early 90s mostly have names that feel dated and grandparent-ish to me.

This message was edited 1/31/2024, 4:52 PM

- Rainya
1/31/2024, 6:53 PM
I know people named Michelle and Stephanie my age (I'm 20)!
- Francisinfp5w4
1/31/2024, 4:53 PM
Thank you. There are a lot of things I didn't know.
- New_Chloe (nsi) (guest)   +5
1/31/2024, 10:28 AM
The idea of grandparents names has shifted. Time marches on, cruelly!In my day, Grandparent Names were things from the 30s and early 40s, because that's when *my* grandparents were born. Stuff like:Shirley
Helen
Martha
Dorothy
Ruth
Barbara
Sandra
Cecile
Rose
Marilyn
Joan
Betty (rarely Elizabeth; usually Betty in full)
Frank
Walter
Gerald
Eugene
Arthur
Carl
Norman
Harold
Albert
AlfredBut now, grandparent names are probably more of what I thought of as "mom and dad" names - things from the 50s, 60s, maybe even the 70s. Stuff like:Lori (so many of my friends had moms named Lori, Laurie, or Lorraine)
Elaine
Shelley
Anita
Sharon
Kimberly (Kim)
Donna
Diane
Cynthia (Cindy)
Linda
Susan
Deborah (Debbie, Deb)
Janet and Janice
Barry
Gary

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- Francisinfp5w4   +4
1/31/2024, 4:51 PM
Then, over time, names from the 80s and 90s will become grandparents’ names.
- New_Chloë (New_Chloe)   +3
2/1/2024, 7:51 AM
Yes! I've already heard one young person refer to Jennifer as an "old lady name". It's happening!!
- Francisinfp5w4   +2
2/1/2024, 7:56 AM
Jennifer is actually my English name. But It's okay though. Now I've learned the lesson that most names become your grandparents' names at some point and that doesn't inherently make them bad. Through this post. (So I still love Patricia, And this also applies to other names from the 60s to 90s that I love.)

This message was edited 2/1/2024, 8:02 AM

- New_Chloë (New_Chloe)   +1
2/1/2024, 10:12 AM
Oh gosh, no, it definitely does not make them bad. It's all part of the cycle of name fashion! I'm glad you feel ok about it now :)
- Francisinfp5w4
2/1/2024, 4:51 PM
Thank you.
- Francisinfp5w4   +2
1/31/2024, 8:45 AM
Thank you. Before, I didn't know that Patricia was grandmother's name, but now I definitely realize it. (So now I can imagine Patricia as someone's grandmother. Although it is not the first association that comes to mind..)

This message was edited 1/31/2024, 8:46 AM

- Rainya   +1
1/31/2024, 8:46 AM
Yeah, I just can't imagine the name Patricia on a child, haha.
- guasguendi
1/31/2024, 12:14 PM
I'm surprised that people in the Anglosphere regard Patricia as a dated name, yet here in Spain (and Latin America) it is perennial, although it is now gradually falling out of favor.
- erb816   +1
1/31/2024, 8:21 AM
Right now, I think "grandpa names" or "grandma names" refer to the common names of people who have grandkids who are thirteen and under, so to speak. This points to a demographic of Late Boomers / Early Gen-X in terms of ages. I'm going with roughly 1955-1975 for the years of birth here. A lot of these names are names I previously thought of as "Dad / Mom names."Anyway, these are my picks for the biggest "grandparents names":Gary (I absolutely cannot picture a child with this name)
Larry
Jerry
Terry (notice a pattern?)
Paul (and "Paulie")
Frank
Dale
Rodney (and "Roddy")
&
Linda
Donna
Martha
Susan
Debra / Deborah (and "Debbie")
Brenda
Janice
Shirley
Nancy
Lori
Barbara
SharonI'd add Karen as well, but she's sort of... in her own category, sadly.
- Francisinfp5w4
1/31/2024, 8:25 AM
I don't knew Paul, Lori are grandparents' name. Thank you for letting me know.

This message was edited 1/31/2024, 8:28 AM

- Canielle   +3
1/31/2024, 7:51 AM
My eldest grandparent was born in 1918 and my youngest in 1940 so grandparent stretches nearly a generation for me. My grandparents were/are William, Norman, Janet and Yvonne. Norman and Janet are definitely grandparent names to me but William is far too common to be a grandparent name and Yvonne I have known a few of different ages so again I don’t immediately see grandparent.Other Grandparent names Winifred
Olive
Joan
Ethel
Pearl
Gertrude
Conrad
Alfred
Kenneth
Raymond
Gordon
- Francisinfp5w4   +2
1/31/2024, 7:53 AM
I had no idea that Olive was considered a grandparent's name in English-speaking countries, so thank you for letting me know.
- Rainya   +1
1/31/2024, 8:36 AM
I personally don't think of Olive as a grandparent name because it reminds me of the character from A.N.T. Farm + it can be a nickname for Olivia.
- Francisinfp5w4
1/31/2024, 8:38 AM
Thanks for the new information.