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Help[Opinions] Re: Is Wesley "redneck"?
in reply to a message by kiwi
I always think of the Princess bride first. More fairytale than "redneck". But worth noting: I am trying to move away from those terms and ideologies due to the classist implications of those types of labels. What is the implication? Southern American? Low Class? "Trashy?" Results may very person to person, but I am trying to move away from using those types of terms personally due to the negative implications and attitudes involved. I myself would be considered a "redneck" from many people's perception of my own background, so I feel a bit sensitive about it.
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As someone who would also be classified as a "redneck," I heavily agree with you. However, part of me feels "country pride" that Wesley is associated with that. In my mind, I can picture a hardworking farm boy, who is respectful of everyone, loves to fish, and loves to be out in nature. However, I could also picture an encouraging fitness influencer, from the booming metropolis...and even a wholesome, suburban father who brings home lollipops to his kids (after a long day at the office). Regardless, I think this name could fit a man of any background- either way, I get down-to-earth, friendly vibes (even if names can't determine personality at all).
I've heard two pronunciations, 'Wesley' and 'Wezley'. The 'Wezley' pronunciation feels a little more country/redneck, I think? (I don't really like that one, I only like the soft S.)
This message was edited 9/2/2024, 9:39 PM
How interesting! I've only ever heard of the name being pronounced with a "soft s" sound, here in South Carolina (at least, where I am). In fact, I had no idea that other people pronounced it with a "z" at all! I don't think "redneck" when I hear the pronunciation 'Wezley," but moreso of a German accent (due to the fact that German pronounces "S" like the letter "Z" in English, I believe). I agree with your preference on the softer "S" pronunciation for Wesley, personally. Though, I guess I could also see it as "redneck" if I think about the (fairly redneck, imo!) nickname of "Weasel," lol. Thanks for telling me this info; I wonder how many people pronounce Wesley as "Wezley"!
We got it from the Princess Bride.
I hear what you're saying about moving away from that language. I come from that kind of background, too, but I am intentionally trying to move myself away from negative perceptions. Names often come with perception. For example, if you had a child named Sunflower, that would convey some kind of perception to others.
I hear what you're saying about moving away from that language. I come from that kind of background, too, but I am intentionally trying to move myself away from negative perceptions. Names often come with perception. For example, if you had a child named Sunflower, that would convey some kind of perception to others.