[Opinions] What's your standpoint on... Masculine nicknames for feminine names? o.0
I know alot of people here don't like boy's names on girls. Names like Aidan etc, that are generally boy's but are slowly drifting to girls. I usually think like this, with a few exceptions. but this morning, I was thinking about nicknames, and a new possibility jumped into my mind...
How about... (Dun dun dun)...
Girly names with boyish nicknames? For example...
**Joanna "Jo"
**Alexandra "Al" "Alex"
Samantha "Sam"
*Charlotte "Charlie"
*Francesca "Frankie"
*= I like the name, but I might not use that nicname.
**= I like the name and I'd use that nickname.
I think they are cute. Joanna can go by Jo or Anna, or just Joanna when she gets older. But Jo seems spunky and cute on a little girl, as a nickname only.
So what's y'alls standpoint on feminine names with masculine nicknames?
Julia Keelan
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
How about... (Dun dun dun)...
Girly names with boyish nicknames? For example...
**Joanna "Jo"
**Alexandra "Al" "Alex"
Samantha "Sam"
*Charlotte "Charlie"
*Francesca "Frankie"
*= I like the name, but I might not use that nicname.
**= I like the name and I'd use that nickname.
I think they are cute. Joanna can go by Jo or Anna, or just Joanna when she gets older. But Jo seems spunky and cute on a little girl, as a nickname only.
So what's y'alls standpoint on feminine names with masculine nicknames?
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
This message was edited 7/3/2006, 7:00 AM
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It's perfectly reasonable. I don't really have a strong opinion of about it. Some are cute, some not, but as a whole group, I'm pretty neutral.
-- Sarah
-- Sarah
IMO, any nickname goes, as long as it's bestowed by friends (not parents) and accepted by the person.
As far as planned nicknames, I'm okay with the kind you mean -- I'd just want the nicknamers to be prepared to abandon the nick, if the girl didn't like being mistaken for a boy, is all.
- mirfak
As far as planned nicknames, I'm okay with the kind you mean -- I'd just want the nicknamers to be prepared to abandon the nick, if the girl didn't like being mistaken for a boy, is all.
- mirfak
Don't shoot me but I really love masculine names on females. Of course, it depends on the name. There are certain names that I would never ever use on a girl.
I also love girly names with masculine nicknames. I'm actually writing a story with 7 sisters who all have feminine names with masculine nicknames.
I also love girly names with masculine nicknames. I'm actually writing a story with 7 sisters who all have feminine names with masculine nicknames.
I dont mind unisex nicknames for girls, I dont see them as Boyish because they are formed from girls names and are just as legit as the nicknames formed from boys names.
A girl with a feminine formal name and a unisex nickname gets the best of both worlds to my mind.
A girl with a feminine formal name and a unisex nickname gets the best of both worlds to my mind.
My nn is Jo
So I guess I don't really have grounds to criticize. Jo just kind of happened though. When I was in elementary school we had 6 Jennifers in our classroom. Teachers basically renamed us. Jennifer, Jen, Jennie, Jenna, Jo, Jem. I got Jo because my fn/ln initials are J.O.
Stuff like Sammy, Nicky, Charlie, Danny... eh. I don't hate them, but they aren't something I'd particularly want to use.
So I guess I don't really have grounds to criticize. Jo just kind of happened though. When I was in elementary school we had 6 Jennifers in our classroom. Teachers basically renamed us. Jennifer, Jen, Jennie, Jenna, Jo, Jem. I got Jo because my fn/ln initials are J.O.
Stuff like Sammy, Nicky, Charlie, Danny... eh. I don't hate them, but they aren't something I'd particularly want to use.
I hear ya. I wouldn't use Dani for Danielle, becuase I don't really like the original name! For alot of names I like girly nicknames too! It really depends on the name!
Julia Keelan
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
I personally don't really like nns. Especially not masculine nns for girls. Yuck!
"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."
~~~ John 3:16
"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."
~~~ John 3:16
I hate boys names on girls for various reasons, but I don't mind boyish nicknames. Nicknames come and go and people can choose ones for themselves by themselves, so I personally don't oppose to any sort of nicknames, really.
I think they are fine
If she wants to have a boyish nn, she can have it. But if she wants to have a more classic feminine name when she is older, she can have that too.
There is a nurse in ER who refuses to listen to anything but Sam. And she looks very feminine: petite with long, blond and curly hair. I think she looks much more like the formal name Samantha. I don't know why women love male nn, do they feel like they are more worth? Male = strong and female = weak
"You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams."
(On Children by Kahlil Gibran)
If she wants to have a boyish nn, she can have it. But if she wants to have a more classic feminine name when she is older, she can have that too.
There is a nurse in ER who refuses to listen to anything but Sam. And she looks very feminine: petite with long, blond and curly hair. I think she looks much more like the formal name Samantha. I don't know why women love male nn, do they feel like they are more worth? Male = strong and female = weak
"You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams."
(On Children by Kahlil Gibran)
yea i think those nicknames are good as a young girl and maybe a teenager, but give her the possiblity of having it when shes older, so she wont be thought a boy forever.:)
I like them. They seem very spunky and cute. I especially love Charlie for Charlotte, Charlene, etc. The only one you mentioned that I don't like is Al for Alexandra. I think masculine nns for feminine full names is more acceptable because the child still has their real name to fall back on when they're older or if they just decide that they don't like their nn. However, I would not want to see a feminine nn on a masculine name. I just cannot stand it when names that are not unisex cross over.
This message was edited 7/3/2006, 12:42 PM
Hehe, I know a few Alyson's and Alexanders, and I call them all Al. Alyson goes by Aly and Alexander goes by Alex, but they're all Al in my book. It a really personal kind of nickname though. If I had a daughter named Alexandra, I'd probably introduce her as Allie, but if I was talking to her I'd just say Al.
For some odd reason, I agree with you... I don't like girly nicknames on boys! I guess I'm technically sexist in that aspect, but oh well. I'm not really in other ways! My history teacher always says "This is a hard test - we'll separate the boys from the men. Oh sorry Julia, and the women from the girls." I get on his case whenever he says it without the "Sorry, Julia" part! :-P
Julia Keelan
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
For some odd reason, I agree with you... I don't like girly nicknames on boys! I guess I'm technically sexist in that aspect, but oh well. I'm not really in other ways! My history teacher always says "This is a hard test - we'll separate the boys from the men. Oh sorry Julia, and the women from the girls." I get on his case whenever he says it without the "Sorry, Julia" part! :-P
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
That's very sweet. I've always liked Johanna, but w/the nn Jo, everyone assumes the full name is Joanna or Josephine and I've never really cared for Hanna. My dh's name is John, too, so Johanna, nn Johnnie really appeals to me. Darn you! Just when I'd got my (hypothetical) future chilren's names list pared down to 2 for each sex, you give me another great idea! :o) I think Johanna Raye, nn Johnnie would be a great addition to my list. ;o)
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I love them.
They seem very oldfashioned to me. Very rural. I love Jimmie (Jamesina), Johnnie (Johnna, Joanna, etc), Tommie and Tam (Thomasina), Bobbie and Bertie/Birdie (Roberta), Vinnie (Vincenza), etc, etc. I have a big list of them, and if I wasn't on my way out the door, I'd pass it along to you.
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They seem very oldfashioned to me. Very rural. I love Jimmie (Jamesina), Johnnie (Johnna, Joanna, etc), Tommie and Tam (Thomasina), Bobbie and Bertie/Birdie (Roberta), Vinnie (Vincenza), etc, etc. I have a big list of them, and if I wasn't on my way out the door, I'd pass it along to you.
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...And then he said, "You're independent, aren't you?"
"Yes," said Laura.
A revolution without dancing is a revolution not worth having.
Ooh those are some good ones! I'll have to bug you for the list later!
Julia Keelan
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
I love masculine nns for girls & feminine nns for boys. For instance, if I had a Miranda, I'd definitely call her Randy, and if I had a Josiah, I'd have no qualms whatsoever about calling him Josie. :o) Or a girl named Jacoba, nn Jake and her brother Ellis by the nn Ellie. It's just how I am - an equal opportunity nnamer, I guess. :o)
I don't mind masculine nns for girls
As it still gives the girl a choice and she can revert back to her full name or adopt a more feminine nickname if she wishes.
For example Charlotte nn Charlie can go by Charlotte or Lottie if she wishes but a female who was just Charlie doesn't have that option. Though there are some masculine nns I don't like on girls (Charlie is one, and Evan for Evangeline and others) it's better IMO than an Aidan, Ryan or Tristan. I also don't mind the reverse, a feminine nn for a boy, like Francis nn Fran.
I like:
Josephine nn Joey
Alberta nn Bertie
Harriet nn Harrie
Matilda nn Mattie
Theodora nn Theo, Teddie
~Louise x
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As it still gives the girl a choice and she can revert back to her full name or adopt a more feminine nickname if she wishes.
For example Charlotte nn Charlie can go by Charlotte or Lottie if she wishes but a female who was just Charlie doesn't have that option. Though there are some masculine nns I don't like on girls (Charlie is one, and Evan for Evangeline and others) it's better IMO than an Aidan, Ryan or Tristan. I also don't mind the reverse, a feminine nn for a boy, like Francis nn Fran.
I like:
Josephine nn Joey
Alberta nn Bertie
Harriet nn Harrie
Matilda nn Mattie
Theodora nn Theo, Teddie
~Louise x
Charles Frederick & Isabel Primrose
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In general I don't like them at all. I almost always prefer the full name.
I actually don't like Sam, it's just one that came to mind! The nicknames I like depend on the names I like... I don't like Samantha, so I don't like Sam. I don't like Danielle, so I'd never use Dani. But for a name like Miranda, which I love, I'd definetely consider Randy!!
Julia Keelan
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
"I don't mean to be rude-" he began in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.
"-yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often."
~ From Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling. Vernon Dursley to Albus Dumbledore.
This message was edited 7/3/2006, 9:34 AM