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Love the name, hate the nickname
Are there any names you would like, or even love, if it weren't for a terrible nickname putting you off?For me, the queen of this category is Gabrielle. It's chic, sophisticated, refined without being too soft / delicate. French. It's almost perfect - it definitely fits with my aesthetic, at least. There's just one glaring problem: Gabby / Gabi. That gets a big fat no from me. Even if the epithet (gabby) isn't commonly used anymore, the sound to my ears is whiny, petulant, and just overall unattractive. And the really sad part is that Gabby feels inevitable because every single Gabrielle / Gabriella / Gabriela (the last one being the most common in my experience, particularly among Latinos) I've ever met has gone by Gabby / Gabi. None of them used their full name (likely because they thought it would sound pretentious). None even used Bree, which I find far more preferable (even though "brie" is a cheese, I know). So that takes Gabrielle off the table for me.(Funnily enough, I'm quite fond of the "modern" creation Briella because it specifically avoids Gabby - and it's one of the few cases where I prefer the -ella option to the -elle one.)***Please rate my personal name lists:www.behindthename.com/pnl/69381
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Just call her Elle.
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I also love Gabriella and Gabrielle but not so much Gabby/Gabi. I don't have a huge aversion to this nickname but compared with the full name it's really not very attractive, and indeed quite difficult to avoid.
I'm sure I have many such names but here are some I can think of off the top of my head (I dislike the nicknames to varying degrees and I don't think they are always as inevitable as is the case with Gabby):
I love Adeline, Adelaide, Adele etc. but really dislike Ada and Addie. Same for Madeline vs Maddie.
I like Emily or Emmeline but not Em. I like Cordelia and Cornelia but not Corrie. I like Danielle and Daniel but not Danni/Danny or Dan. I like Gabriel but not Gabe (even more than Gabby). I like Michael but not Mike, and Raphael but not Rafe. I like Emmanuel but hate Manny. I like Jane but dislike Janie. I like Katherine but much less so Kate. I like Anna/Anne but not Nan or Annie. I like Felicity but not Lissy or Flick. I like Cecilia but not Cissy or Ceecee. I like Samuel but not Sam (I like Sam more for Samantha). I like Kevin but dislike Kev. I like lots of -lia names but not the nickname Lia.
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Gabs? Gaba? Elle? Anna-but there's Annie
Stewart-but there's Stew, Stewie, Stewy, etc. Artie/ Arty is fine
Adrianna-but there's "Age"
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Laurence has a kind of dashing, dignified quality. Larry is so lame.
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I always tend to think of masculine names. Hate may be a strong word, but I strongly dislike.Jeremy, hate Jerry
Franklin, hate Frank
Gregory, hate Greg
Alexander, hate AlexThere are some female ones that are coming to mind now as well. Alice, hate Ally
Madeline, hate MaddyThere are more but I am having difficulty thinking of them at the moment.
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Joseph. I've loved this name since I was a small child, but I hate all the nicknames. I also think it's too formal for everyday use so I'd never use it, lol.Richard too for similar reasons.
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Douglas is a great name, but I hate the nickname Doug.
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Douglas was my father in law’s name and he was known as Dougie pronounced Doogeey
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I would say Christina and Kristen for a girl, since I dislike the name Chris or Kris.
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I rather like Abigail, Abby seems inconsistent and childish. Frederick is handsome and sophisticated, Fred and Freddie are a bit inconsistent.
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I’m with you on Gabrielle / Gabriella / Gabriela! Same for Gabriel. Love the full name, don’t care for Gabe at all. Others:
Sophia (can’t stand Sophie)
Alexander and Alexandra (Alex is so boring. I do like Allie for Alexandra though)
Nicholas (Nick...yawn)
Eleanor / Eliana (really not a fan of Ellie)
Isabel (hate both Izzy and Belle / Bella)
Margaret (HATE Maggie, reminds me of maggots)
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I'm with you on Sophie, Ellie, Belle / Bella and Maggie!
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Beatrice - Bea, Bee is even worse
Elizabeth - Bessie, Bess, Betty
Isabella - Bella
Victoria - Tori, Vicky
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Frederic/Frederick— I don’t like the nicknames Fred or Freddy. Elizabeth—I don’t like Liz, Lizzie, or Bess. Isabel or Isabella—- I don’t like Izzy or Bella.

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I like Bartholomew but I hate Bart, so I would never use it.I also like Madison but hate Maddy.

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Hmmm... I really hate CeCe as a nickname for Cecilia. While I don't feel like that nn is inevitable, it does make my hesitate a bit.
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I like Antonia a lot, but Toni is honestly just horrible as far as I'm concerned. There was a girl in the year above me at school who was Antonia nn Toni, and I just always felt it was a terrible waste of a name!
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Hm, we are like opposites on that name. I like Gaby / Gabi more than I like Gabrielle. I also like Gabriela more than Gabrielle. Gabriella doesn't strike me as particularly French, the way Giselle or Gisèle does. Gabrielle is like Danielle - a standard English feminine form, IMO. It's Gabriel for girls (I don't mind Gabe either!). I'm not a fan of Briella - seems fluffy to me as a full name. The queen of the category, for me, is Charlotte. Not that it needs a nickname. But Lottie and Charlie (f) I hate very much.
Next in line for the throne:
Marcella (I hate Marcy)
Conrad and Constance (Connie!)
Emerald (Emmy)
Francis m (I don't really care for Frank and Frankie.)
Vincent (It's Vince that I don't like. I don't mind Vin)

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I don’t have any names to list but I just wanted to say my cousin is named Gabrielle, and from the time she was born her mother insisted that everyone call her Gabrielle, not Gabby, not Bree, Gabrielle. She is 14 years old now and has always gone by Gabrielle.
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Victoria - Tori
Violet - Vi
Diana - Di
Alexandra - Alex and Alexa
Philippa - Pippa
Madeline - Maddy/ Maddie

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Franklin (I dislike "Frank") and Frederick (I dislike "Fred" and "Freddy") are some of the biggest ones for me.
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These are names I would use but would actively work to avoid the nickname:Thomas- hate Tom
August- hate Gus
Harvey- dislike HarveElaina- hate EllieThese are some that I avoid in the FN slot because of the inevitable nickname:Ezekiel- dislike Zeke
Bradley- dislike Brad
Jonathan- Jon is boring to me
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You bringing up August "Gus" reminded me that I actually quite like Gustave... but, like you, don't like "Gus" at all.
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Daniel - dislike Dan
Benjamin - dislike Ben
David - dislike Dave
Joshua - dislike Josh
Matthew - dislike MattIsobel - dislike Izzy
Matilda - dislike Tilly and Mattie
Eleanor - dislike Ellie
Frances - dislike Fran and Frankie
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Agree with David / Dave. Dave is the epitome of "dad name" I think. Or "the name of my uncle" or "my dad's best mate"David sounds fresh by comparison
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Leopold - Leo
Alexander - Alex and Xander
Nicholas - Nick (but I like Nico)
Catherine - Kate or Kate (I do like Kitty)
Eleanor - Elle
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Christopher. It sounds so strong and wise; Strongly dislike the nickname "Chris"; it's bland and characterless.
Alexandra. Far too pretty of a name to be unused [except for when filling out a job application] and replaced by nicknames like "Lexi" "Xandra" "Allie". Yuck.
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I agree with Christopher. I like that name, but I really dislike Christian, Christine and Christina and Chris just encompass too many disliked names lmaoI also like Crystal and I'm also wary of that being shortened to Chris xD Though Krissie is a little preferable Love Alexandra and I admit, I do like nearly every nickname for it, especially Alex and Xandra, but Allie? Nooooo thank you. I have the same issue with Alexander and Al :V

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I don't like Gabby either, but I do love Brielle (and Briella)I'm not fond of Mel, though I do like Melody and Melissa I prefer Addy over Maddy, but I prefer Madison over Addison Not fond of Ellen, but I otherwise really like Eleanor. Ellie I do prefer a lot, but it is far, far, FAR too overused. I don't like Theo. But I like Ted / Teddy for Theodore. It's just a given for Theo to end up being my little boy's nickname, however (Ted / Teddy nn for Theodore isn't as common in the UK, it's often short for Edward instead. It just won't be the go-to)I think Alfred is one of the worst offenders for me. While I don't like Alfred that much, I just hate Alfie and I don't know whyWell... I'm not sure if I'd get the Willy issue tbh, especially with how popular Bill / Billy is as a short form of William / Wilbur / Wil-whatever, but it does concern me lmao

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Oooh, I forgot about Melissa! I'm with you, I do like Melissa but really dislike "Mel" (not as big on Melanie or Melody, though).
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Weirdly I like all of them, but I can't stand Mel xD I have no idea what it is. By all accounts, I should like the sound, but nope lol
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Stephen (urgh Steve)
Any Chris name
Rebecca
Gabrielle would make a very unexpected middle name, so you can put her in that spot.
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I have one. I really like the name Luna, in my opinion it’s very pretty. But the thing is, a lot of people immediately think of looney, or lunatic whenever they hear the name. So that’s just nice. But I do like the nn Lulu for Luna. But Lulu sounds like the type of name I would give a cat.
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Nt

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How about Louie as a nn for Luna? Not sure what else you could give it xD I love Luna. The "lunatic" and "looney" associations don't bother me, personally.
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