Hi
Melissa,
I believe this question has been answered before:
http://www.behindthename.com/bb/fact/3764228
The Persian language (also called Farsi) is definitely not extinct. It has 110 million native speakers, and is spoken in Iran, Afghanistan and Tajikistan.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persian_language
As for
Melissa being Persian, I have checked my Persian name book (
The Complete Book of Muslim and Parsi Names by Maneka Gandhi and Ozair
Husain) and I can't find any Persian name that sounds like
Melissa. In fact, I've never heard of
Melissa being anything other than Greek. However from a Google search there seems to have been a play called "The Persian Heroine" (1820) by
Paul Jodrell that featured a Persian character called
Melissa.
http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=lx4UAAAAYAAJ&printsec=frontcover#v=onepage&q&f=falsePerhaps this is where the association with Persian came from?
Interestingly, the definition ("red rose" in Persian) was also the same one that
Tom Cruise gave when he named his daughter
Suri. However this was later discovered to be incorrect:
http://www.nydailynews.com/archives/news/hey-tom-nice-job-article-1.591977Possibly an unscrupulous baby name site has been touting the same false meaning, but for
Melissa?
I don't speak Persian, so I can't say for definite that it doesn't mean "red rose", but I find it unlikely considering that
Melissa is a Greek name. Perhaps you could try contacting a Persian speaker on a forum like WordReference to double check.