I don't think so actually.. I think both of my parents will understand how I think, or they will respect my opinions of my own name. They have always been very supportive. I think that my mothers surname doesn't actually represents any connection to her when so many others have that name too.. But her firstname is
Marianne, so I could use
Mari or
Anne or
Maria as a middlename I guess. But it doesn't actually sound any good with
Cassandra in Norwegian.. But maybe it would be a good thing to do for my mother.
My mothers surname, Hansen, do not work as a second first name, because everyone knows it is a surname. I think it is the most common surname in Norway or so. I think people would think it was weird. But, as mentioned, I could have used
Mari or something, just to have a piece of my mother in my name. It may work if it is
Marí and not just
Mari.