I suppose
Whitney. I wavered. I dislike them about equally.
Sydney's meaning is cooler, but I like the sound of
Whitney just a little better. The dn feels like I have a cold. Such a drab name.
Whitney is at least a bit sharp. And I kind of like "Whit" as a nickname, it's a bit fun... on a boy... and I guess I could like it OK on a girl too...
For a middle name I'd probably go with
Mary. If I've given up on everything re: taste and aesthetics, I may as well go for the only virtue left which is honoring.
Whitney Mary - that's an OK combo!
