Maybe I could have worded it better, but I do think that
Lily is avoidable especially when she is a young girl. I wouldn't intentionally call her
Lily and if others do without hearing me do so first I would be rather surprised! However if when she is older she likes
Lily compared to
Lillian or
Liliana, I would not refuse to call her it as I do not hate
Lily, I just dislike it's popularity. :)
On the
Lillian vs
Liliana debate I think we're rather equal - though I shall leave
Liliana on my list for now :)