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[Opinions] Nell(e) and Parnell
Nell / Nelle as a full name. WDYT? The Nelle spelling, I like as a hat-tip to Nelle Harper Lee...but at the moment, I like the simplicity of Nell. It just feels a bit...audacious to me, you know? Daring, in a Victorian sort of way. ;)The only name I like it as a nickname for is Parnell (see Parnel), which I pronounce with the stress on the second syllable. Do you think the issue of parnel-the-word would be a problem? I'd never heard of it before I looked the name up here (and if it's that obscure it really doesn't bother me at all); I think that if people associated the name with anything, it'd be with the mystery author Parnell Hall (who is a man, but that doesn't bother me, either). So Nell, Nelle, and Parnell nn Nell. Thoughts? Thanks. :)Array

This message was edited 8/17/2007, 11:36 AM

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I love Nell and Nelle.Parnell unfortunately only has negative connotations for me. It was the surname of the guy who, in 1972, abducted 7-year-old Steven Stayner and abused him for seven years before Steven escaped with a new young child that Parnell had just abducted. The case was turned into a mini-series and later a movie named "I Know My First Name is Steven", which we watched in Early Childhood Studies when I was in high school. Parnell is also the surname of a guy who's just been charged with murdering his ex-partner here in Perth. So the name makes my skin crawl, sorry!Parnelle wouldn't be as bad as it's less masculine and therefore doesn't have the male-creep aura for me. Also, Peronelle would be gorgeous. Do either of those interest you?
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I think Nell/Nelle is really nice
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"Come Out Ye Black and Tans" makes some reference to an Irish Parnell. I know a shamefully small amout of Irish history so I can't tell you what he did, but that's what it reminds me of straight away.I know a few Parnells (as in, people with that surname). So it's pretty surnamey to me, though not unattractive. Petronel and Petronella appeal to me more but I know you're not into that. :-)If you're up for suggestions, as 'full' names for Nell I like to some degree:Cornelia, Cornelie, or Kornelia
Antonella
Fenella
Ionela
Marinella
Marianela
Nigella (a glaring guilty pleasure of mine)
Helena or HeleneHm. That's about it. I'm not feeling it'll be a very fruitful list for you, though. I like Nell a lot on its own anyway. I feel the same way that you decribed about Mame.

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I never knew anything about the name or word Parnel, so that's news to me. But if that was my name and I found out what it meant, I don't think I'd like it. Do you like Petronel at all (seeing as it's related to Parnel)? I think I'd totally prefer Nell on its own to Parnell nn Nell. And I like Harper Lee, but I don't love Nelle (though it's better than Parnel, too, imo). I like Nell best as a nn for Eleanor or Penelope, personally, but those are a tad bit dull. ;)
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Honestly, I've been looking around, and I've yet to find a reference to that usage of Parnel outside of BtN. It's likely true, but it seems to be insanely esoteric at this point. I really dislike Petronel, actually. D: And as for Elenore and Penelope, they'd be Lennie and Penny, obviously. ;)Thanks.Array
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I absolutely adore Nell / Nelle. It's my favorite girl name, as of right now. It strikes me as sweet, gentle, and classy. Like you, I went looking for an appropriate full name for it, but came up with Nichelle.
I doubt the meaning of Parnel would be a problem, since so few people are aware that Parnel was once a bad word. Remember that Molly came back after people forgot that a moll was a prostitute. That being said, I'm not a real fan of Parnel (too masculine maybe?). What about Pernel? It sounds like a cross between Parnel and Pearl. It's much more feminine to my ears.
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I'm really not too worried about this parnel-as-a-word thing. If you look it up on m-w.com, it doesn't even show up--it's clearly pretty darned obscure.Pernel doesn't do anything for me, though. The resemblance to Pearl is what bothers me; I had a very bad run-in with a Pearl once, and it's put me off the name entirely.Array
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I agree, Nell seems sort of daring in a Victorian sort of way. I like it, on it's own or as a nn for Parnell. I would associate Parnell with, well, nothing. Go for it, it's a nice name. I don't think there would be many associations with anything (other than the author). I prefer Nell as a nn to Parnell.
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I like Nell and I can see what you mean by it being audacious in a Victorian way. Isn't there a Nell in Brat Farrar?Parnell is unusable to me because it is associated with Charles Stewart Parnell a major figure in Irish 19th century politics. It also seems like a boy's name to me. I prefer Petronel. Because it's an obscure word I wouldn't worry about others knowing the meaning of it but young Parnell herself might mind.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Stewart_Parnell
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I think Nell is very charming but I don't like Parnell. Parnell is typical a male name and Nell is typically a female name so they don't quite work together imo.
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Parnell is typical a male name Can it really be called a typically male name? It's incredibly uncommon on either sex. I can see the argument for it being masculine, since it's also a surname and surnames generally end up thought as masculine (well, they used to), but the fact that it's A) also etymologically appropriate for a girl and B) not exactly top on the boys' hit parade makes it hard for me to see the justification in calling it absolutely masculine.Array

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Well, I guess I should have said that typically the Parnells I meet are male. I have never met a female Parnell but many male Parnells. I see it often on male African Americans in their 20's-50's. I think they consider it a variation on Darnell.
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Nell is nice, but I think it works better as a nickname. I don't like Nelle or Parnel.What about Petronel or Petronella?

This message was edited 8/17/2007, 12:16 PM

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Dislike Petronel. Love Petronella, but I'd call her Penny; I'm quite serious when I say that I don't like Nell as a nickname for pretty much anything else, alas. Elenore would be Lennie, Petronella would be Penny, and so on and so forth. ^^;; Thus, Parnell (I wouldn't use Parnel, either--it doesn't look "right" to me, for whatever reason).Thanks!Array
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I like Nell and Nelle. I think, for some reason, I prefer Nell as a nickname, and Nelle as a full name.Parnell isn't bad, I kind of like the idea of hearing it on someone else's child - I just wouldn't use it myself. I would definetly use the nickname Nell, though.

This message was edited 8/17/2007, 12:11 PM

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I believe Parnell Roberts (or somethingbut I'm sure about the Parnell) was one of the sons in the old t.v. series "Bonanza."
Nell, yes, nice name, time it came back.
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I like Nell a lot! The extra 'e' seems unnecessary - I agree about the simplicity of Nell. Nelle seems frilly to me.I'd prefer Nell be a nickname though, since it's almost too simple. Parnell is a good idea - I've never heard of the word before, so I can't see it being a problem. My first association is Chris Parnell, actually, not that that's a bad thing. :)Parnell nn Nell looks good to me!
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I love Nell. It's one of my top 10 names, maybe top 5...I like it as a nn for Eleanor, but I also think it can stand alone. The spelling Nelle looks froofy to me. I agree with the audacious Victorian comment, and I like a lot of other names that I associate similarly -- Nancy, Aggie, Elsie, Ruby, etc.I didn't know of the parnel-as-a-word association either, but Parnel / Parnell seems very masculine to me, although I hadn't heard of the author. Unfortunately, I don't like the nn Nellie at all. We had a dog named Nellie when I was growing up and I just can't shake the association -- it sounds like a dog's name to me. So I'm not sure that I would actually use Nell, for that reason.

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I don't really like Parnell. I'd prefer Nell, just by itself. I think the simpler spelling looks nicer.I'd like to add that Nelle looked like Noelle for a second to me so I don't know if the names would ever get mixed up!

This message was edited 8/17/2007, 12:36 PM

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