[Opinions] Re: Oh, and you're totally graceful and reserved, Lady.
in reply to a message by -=A=-
Your belief that a woman should remain "graceful and reserved" when she hears her gender insulted is sexist in and of itself. Women are just as capable of, and have every right to be outraged and to defend themselves as men do.
Why don't you list all the examples of your personal observations of single mothers giving their sons frilly, weak names and I'll counter with my observations that they don't. And in the end, nothing will be proved, because personal observations are not scientific data, as Chrisell pointed out. And while you're at it, why don't you get into a time machine and transport yourself back to the nineteenth century, where your sexist views will be much more common, and the women will be too "graceful and reserved" to argue with you?
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Calvin or Caleb?  ·  queenv  ·  4/14/2008, 7:12 PM
Re: Calvin or Caleb?  ·  Murasaki  ·  4/15/2008, 11:51 AM
Caleb!! nt  ·  Nikki  ·  4/15/2008, 6:06 AM
Re: Calvin or Caleb?  ·  Elena  ·  4/15/2008, 5:31 AM
Caleb (nt)  ·  Marija Luminitsa  ·  4/14/2008, 10:56 PM
Re: Calvin or Caleb?  ·  queenv  ·  4/14/2008, 10:49 PM
Caleb, hands down (m)  ·  Diamante04  ·  4/14/2008, 9:58 PM
Between the two, Calvin  ·  Eilis  ·  4/14/2008, 9:23 PM
Re: Calvin or Caleb?  ·  Gabrielle  ·  4/14/2008, 9:04 PM
Re: Calvin or Caleb?  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/14/2008, 8:59 PM
Can I choose just Cal?  ·  Array  ·  4/14/2008, 8:20 PM
Ditto. nt  ·  Siri  ·  4/14/2008, 8:30 PM
Re: Calvin or Caleb?  ·  MariaNikolaievnaRomanova  ·  4/14/2008, 8:10 PM
Calvin  ·  Siri  ·  4/14/2008, 8:07 PM
Calvin. More handsome and of a man. nt  ·  I_Love_Jesus  ·  4/14/2008, 8:05 PM
I am a man and I am very glad I am not named Calvin (nt)  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 8:07 PM
x  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  4/15/2008, 9:28 AM
But can you speak for all men?  ·  Siri  ·  4/14/2008, 8:35 PM
*rolls around laughing* nt  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/14/2008, 8:52 PM
Really?  ·  Siri  ·  4/14/2008, 8:47 PM
My brother's name is Calvin. He's not teased. n/t  ·  Ariel  ·  4/16/2008, 4:17 PM
Keep in mind...  ·  Eilis  ·  4/14/2008, 9:14 PM
Re: Keep in mind...  ·  Murasaki  ·  4/15/2008, 11:50 AM
I remember that  ·  Siri  ·  4/14/2008, 9:47 PM
Unabashedly nerdilicious. Thumbs Way Down.  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 8:52 PM
I respectfully disagree....  ·  queenv  ·  4/14/2008, 8:57 PM
Oh, you're right. I just changed my mind. Calvin is great!  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 9:03 PM
What I've always wanted to say:  ·  Rachel Shay  ·  4/15/2008, 2:04 PM
excuse me!? [M]  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  4/15/2008, 9:37 AM
Well put.  ·  Siri  ·  4/15/2008, 10:34 AM
thank you :nt  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  4/15/2008, 1:14 PM
Snoop Dogg is nerdy?  ·  Tuesday  ·  4/15/2008, 9:23 AM
Re: Snoop Dogg is nerdy?  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/15/2008, 10:00 PM
this is absolutely ridiculous  ·  Tippins  ·  4/15/2008, 5:07 AM
Recipe Time! (m)  ·  Starving Artist  ·  4/15/2008, 6:19 AM
Sexist. nt  ·  Akua Topaz  ·  4/14/2008, 10:39 PM
ditto nt  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  4/15/2008, 9:26 AM
Re: Oh, you're right. I just changed my mind. Calvin is great!  ·  queenv  ·  4/14/2008, 9:18 PM
Re: Oh, you're right. I just changed my mind. Calvin is great!  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 9:31 PM
You are a complete moron....  ·  queenv  ·  4/14/2008, 9:35 PM
Oh, and you're totally graceful and reserved, Lady.  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 9:40 PM
Re: Oh, and you're totally graceful and reserved, Lady.  ·  queenv  ·  4/14/2008, 9:57 PM
sigh  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 10:34 PM
Re: sigh  ·  queenv  ·  4/14/2008, 10:47 PM
Re: sigh  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 10:52 PM
Re: sigh  ·  lac  ·  4/15/2008, 12:33 PM
Re: sigh  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/15/2008, 9:31 PM
unneccessary  ·  Tippins  ·  4/15/2008, 3:44 PM
Contour? I think you mean 'contort', genius. nt  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/14/2008, 11:02 PM
Not at all.  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 11:18 PM
Actually, the phrase is "cater to whims," not contour. (nt)  ·  Starving Artist  ·  4/15/2008, 9:16 AM
Re: contour  ·  Lillian  ·  4/15/2008, 9:34 AM
Re: contour  ·  Starving Artist  ·  4/15/2008, 10:33 AM
Re: contour  ·  Lillian  ·  4/15/2008, 12:40 PM
Re: contour  ·  Starving Artist  ·  4/15/2008, 6:34 PM
agree :-) /nt  ·  Lillian  ·  4/15/2008, 7:50 PM
Yah, I know . . .  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/15/2008, 9:45 AM
Oh my god. You really are a caveman. nt  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/14/2008, 10:37 PM
Then stop making a spectacle of yourself. nt  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/14/2008, 10:08 PM
Re: You are a complete moron....  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/14/2008, 9:44 PM
Agreed . . .  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/14/2008, 9:39 PM
Re: Oh, you're right. I just changed my mind. Calvin is great!  ·  Gabrielle  ·  4/14/2008, 9:05 PM
Re: Oh, you're right. I just changed my mind. Calvin is great!  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 9:32 PM
Re: Oh, you're right. I just changed my mind. Calvin is great!  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/14/2008, 9:26 PM
I hope not!  ·  Cora (nsi)  ·  4/15/2008, 8:24 AM
Re: I hope not!  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/15/2008, 9:42 PM
Re: I hope not!  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/15/2008, 11:31 PM
Oh, only some people go through it :-) nt  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/15/2008, 9:43 AM
I agree, too.  ·  Gabrielle  ·  4/14/2008, 9:03 PM
Agree. nt  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/14/2008, 9:00 PM
Except a boy named Sue. (nt)  ·  MariaNikolaievnaRomanova  ·  4/14/2008, 8:45 PM
If you ever get the chance...  ·  Siri  ·  4/14/2008, 8:48 PM
neither (m)  ·  Antigone  ·  4/14/2008, 7:54 PM
Calvin (m)  ·  Genevieve  ·  4/14/2008, 7:38 PM
Calvin (nt)  ·  Kristen  ·  4/14/2008, 7:31 PM
Caleb (nt)  ·  -=A=-  ·  4/14/2008, 7:29 PM
Calvin (m)  ·  Starving Artist  ·  4/14/2008, 7:27 PM
Calvin (nt)  ·  Rowena  ·  4/14/2008, 7:25 PM
Caleb without a doubt. nt  ·  Pink Princess  ·  4/14/2008, 7:21 PM
Caleb. (m)  ·  Andrew  ·  4/14/2008, 7:16 PM