I knew about the literary association of "Patient
Griselda" and
Enid in general. But I didn't know the details and that they were such door-mats. Now I'll have to work to overcome those images.
Why not a combo like
Enid Griselda or
Griselda Enid? We could introduce our down trodden sisters to each other. Together they feel kind of right, don't you think? In a self-supporting, recovery kind of way.
Then again, I could do what I always do and ignore inconvenient associations when it comes to a name I love, like
Lilith. (Bad girl or freedom fighter? Spin can be a wonderful thing.)