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Well, for one thing, maybe someone wants to like a name for a reason you don't understand, which should be ok with you, but whatever. The Primrose thing is just that it's the same very easy argument. Let's take a survey of the various complaints.

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"frilly and cutesy"
"frilly and prissy"
"Hunger games"
"horrible name to give to a little girl" negative little girl stereotypes: Quiet, Proper, Delicate, Weak, Feeble, Innocent, wisp of a person; Hunger games
"embodies the stereotype of what girls were expected to be"; stupid
"very twee"
"just sounds too prissy"
"prim rows" "twee and stuckup" "pursed-lippy" feeling; Hunger games; "makes a gross cliche even grosser" "not namey enough"
Primness not a good trait; a perpetuation of prissy and proper femininity; a 19th century feminine caricature, cursed to unending propriety
Primness not good; Primrose Shipman
"too delicate" "meek, helpless" "girl who never raises her voice and does anything interesting" "sickeningly sweet" "too old fashioned"
"sickly sweet" "hunger games" animal name or gross immature hunger games fangirl name; Primrose Shipman
Hunger Games "prim and proper" "stuck up and untarnished"

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Like... this is very obvious. Simpletons can see that this name offers up a cliche image of weakness and politeness, that it's very corny. It was used in the hunger games, which most people know now. It is very simple to make the connection between the "prim" in the first half of the name and the word "prim." How long has it been since someone had a new complaint about this name? No wonder Lily keeps asking for opinions. She can see the prim stereotype; she's looking for someone who sees something else about this name.

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Is there anything else about this name?? Does it have any qualities aside from its tweeness? I couldn't find any. Mirfak pointed out the pursed-lip thing, which was interesting, but no one else has said anything not immediately obvious about it. What's the deal, Lily? Why are you so into this name?

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