Use your preferred online dice.
Roll the four-sided die for the respective namebanks. Feel free to do multiple middle names -- just roll separately for each name.
DH:
DW:
Roll a ten- or twelve-sided die for number of children (you choose which maximum you'd like). Then roll for genders (odd = boy, even = girl). Then roll an eight-sided die to see if they survive to adulthood. If it lands on a 1 or 7, then they sadly do not survive to adulthood.
There are outbreaks of tuberculosis and influenza. To see if each family member survives, roll a four-sided die. If it lands on a 3, then they die from one of those diseases.
Surname namebank:
Tennyson, Adams, Lynch, Wakefield, Devitt,
Kipling, Browning, Dickens, Highmore, Whitlock, Gladstone,
Lazarus, Chattoway,
Seymour,
Austen, Hayward, Godwin, Wheeler,
Murray, Wilde.
Boy namebank 1:
Henry, Bennet,
Reuben,
Simeon, Arlington,
Bishop,
Regulus,
Wolfgang,
Wallace,
Neville,
Vincent,
Gilbert,
Raymond,
Felix,
Llewellyn,
Malcolm,
Alfred,
Grover,
Cedric,
Eugene,
Clarence,
Baxter,
Cecil,
Warren,
Casimir.
Boy namebank 2:
James,
Basil,
Jasper,
Asa, Ptolomy,
Louis,
Thaddeus,
Eben, Eldridge,
Percival,
Phineas,
Merlin,
Oliver,
Valentine,
Gerald,
Rupert,
Francis,
Montague, Wellington,
Everett,
Ambrose,
Enoch,
Ephraim,
Victor,
Cassius.
Boy namebank 3:
Charles,
August,
Horatio,
Ulysses, Oakley,
Silas,
Balthazar,
Erasmus,
Arthur, Miller,
Oscar,
Vernon,
George,
Rufus,
Fergus,
Lionel,
Jack,
Ivor,
Maxwell,
Augustus,
Larkin,
Edward,
Duncan,
Bernard,
Ferdinand.
Boy namebank 4:
Albert,
Archibald,
Hugh,
Bertram,
Byron,
Hector,
Gideon,
Grady,
Dorian,
Edison,
Luther,
Owen,
Timothy,
Frederick,
Roderick,
Franklin,
Leopold,
Harvey,
Sterling,
Miles,
Algernon,
Eustace,
Stanley,
Abraham,
Amadeus.
Girl namebank 1:
Aurelia, Morganna,
Josephine,
Ophelia,
Prudence,
Elizabeth,
Margaret,
Drusilla,
Minnie,
Mildred,
Iris,
Ottilie,
Pandora,
Agnes,
Luella,
Ursula,
Daisy,
Helena,
Harriet,
Flora,
Martha,
Winifred,
Louisa,
Alfreda.
Girl namebank 2:
Arabella,
Ivy,
Eloise,
Odessa,
Minerva,
Mary,
Letitia,
Orpha,
Phoebe,
Amy,
Desdemona,
Mercy,
Tabitha,
Julia,
Doris,
Ruperta,
Jemima,
Freda,
Helen,
Mabel,
Wilhelmina,
Lydia,
Alexandra,
Ruth,
Demetria.
Girl namebank 3:
Matilda,
Clementine,
Irene,
Gertrude,
Blanche,
Anna,
Amelia,
Selina,
Clara,
Artemisia,
Augusta,
Susannah,
Dorothy,
Hilda,
Eveline, Bellicent,
Frances,
Millicent,
Lavinia,
Violet,
Leah,
Norah,
Edith,
Philomena.
Girl namebank 4:
Maude,
Ethel,
Henrietta,
Delphia,
Isabel,
Constance,
Emma,
Eudora, Melusina, Zylphia,
Ida,
Sylvia,
Ada,
Marjorie,
Beatrice,
Cecelia,
Florence,
Lillian,
Victoria,
Priscilla,
Adelaide,
Sophronia,
Eleanor,
Xanthippe.
Feel free to repeat the process for each child to create another generation, and to add any backstory you'd like.
Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.