I would go with something that brings me joy (and so seems like "mine" in that way). If that was
Cesario, then I wouldn't care too much if it seemed foreign/pretentious/grand/formal to other people. If you're primarily picking a name to blend in, then I guess it'd matter but also like, what is the point if it doesn't feel right?
I like saying
Cesario. Cesa ("Cheh-za"),
Cesar,
Ari,
Rio could be potential NNs. Also, I did a poll last year about
Cesare (CHEH-za-reh) vs
César (SEH-ZAR), and 78% preferred
César. I'd guess a lot of English speakers might intuitively pronounce
Cesario with an S sound (like
Caesar in English and
Cesar in Spanish/French), but they might think CH if they're familiar with an Italian form - the pronunciation is ambiguous, but that only matters if people you don't know are reading it, and I like
Cesario either way. If you were going to use
Caesar /
Kaiser, you could go with
Kai as a NN (
Kaiser "
Kai" is simplest in English, but I feel like it's the least namey apart from
Kai - I'd rather see Kaius /
Caius).
This message was edited 3/27/2024, 9:08 AM