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What about Tristan? I think it's strong and handsome. Do you like it?
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Every Tristan I've ever met has been mean as a viper. Just bad news and bad vibes and often a total...um... f-boy attitude. Even though that's a subjective personal impression, and the name isn't awful, it puts me off it. Association aside it's...fine. I like it in some combos, and don't hate the sound.
It's also very common whilst giving the impression of being less common than it is. People seem to think Tristan is unique and rare yet it's had a huge name boom since probably the 90s if not before in some countries, and a lot of people (me for example) know several Tristans.
It's also very common whilst giving the impression of being less common than it is. People seem to think Tristan is unique and rare yet it's had a huge name boom since probably the 90s if not before in some countries, and a lot of people (me for example) know several Tristans.
Also think it's a strong and handsome name. I really like it a lot.
Despite associating it with the word triste, which is also used in my language, I still like it a lot. For me, it's strong but very refined, too. It's interesting to see that it began to get popular in the 90s/early 2000s.
Yeah, I was kind of wondering what caused the popularity. Was it because Kristen, Kristin were popular for girls and people liked similar sounds? There was a Tristin (dislike the spelling) (male) on "Gilmore Girls", so maybe that helped some. Can't think of other popular namesakes from around the time.
Actually, it was due to Tristan Ludlow (played by Brad Pitt) from the movie Legends of the Fall (https://www.nancy.cc/2022/09/20/baby-name-tristan/; this page is amazing if you look for popularizations of names!).
But I wonder if the movie also caused Tristan to boost in popularity in France, the Netherlands, Scandinavia and Slovenia. It's also got some usage in Georgia (the country)! Here in Spain there are 2,278 bearers of the name (as Tristán) and what is surprising is the average age: 12.6 years, making it a relatively modern name.
But I wonder if the movie also caused Tristan to boost in popularity in France, the Netherlands, Scandinavia and Slovenia. It's also got some usage in Georgia (the country)! Here in Spain there are 2,278 bearers of the name (as Tristán) and what is surprising is the average age: 12.6 years, making it a relatively modern name.
Before that movie, it started charting on the top 1000 in 1971, after a TV movie version of Tristan & Isolde came out. There was also a Salvador Dali book, and a recording of Wagner's opera. That first boost might be why it was used by the author of the 1979 book, that inspired the Legends of the Fall movie. It was cool enough for a character - but not ready to be used for real boys yet. Kinda like Luna when the HP books were written?
I feel like Tristan was inevitably going to be popular ... in part because as a youth in the 80s (having only seen it as the opera title) I found it appealing ... I think the things that delayed its popularity, were the similarity to Kristen (which was taking off in 1970), the general unfamiliarity, & association with medieval romance (which I think would have made it seem too "flaky" to people then, kind of like using Lancelot for a boy).
Those things were not going to inhibit parents anymore (people around my age, who probably were aware of it before the movie and liked it) at the time the Pitt portrayal came out, so it took right off. But, I think it might have done anyway - even without the movie, just to a lesser extent, or a bit later.
I feel like Tristan was inevitably going to be popular ... in part because as a youth in the 80s (having only seen it as the opera title) I found it appealing ... I think the things that delayed its popularity, were the similarity to Kristen (which was taking off in 1970), the general unfamiliarity, & association with medieval romance (which I think would have made it seem too "flaky" to people then, kind of like using Lancelot for a boy).
Those things were not going to inhibit parents anymore (people around my age, who probably were aware of it before the movie and liked it) at the time the Pitt portrayal came out, so it took right off. But, I think it might have done anyway - even without the movie, just to a lesser extent, or a bit later.
I didn't know that, thanks for sharing!
Oh! That's probably it. Thanks for sharing this great website! I will look up some names now :)
Brad Pitt must have been huge at the time, so my guess is that this is indeed the reason for its popularity in Europe.
Brad Pitt must have been huge at the time, so my guess is that this is indeed the reason for its popularity in Europe.
You're welcome. :)
And most likely Brad also made it popular in Europe.
And most likely Brad also made it popular in Europe.
I used to love Tristan when I was a teen. It always felt sparkly and chivalrous, and made me think of fairy tales.
Maybe because I associate it so strongly with my younger taste, it feels a bit childish to me now. Kind of bratty and spoiled sounding, and oddly untrustworthy. The sound is still pretty, but I think I've gone off it for a boy.
Maybe because I associate it so strongly with my younger taste, it feels a bit childish to me now. Kind of bratty and spoiled sounding, and oddly untrustworthy. The sound is still pretty, but I think I've gone off it for a boy.
I love Tristan but I don't think of it as "strong". The sound of it is "soft" which is why I like it. I tend to gravitate to "softer" boy names like Gabriel, Julian and Sebastian so Tristan "fits" in quite nicely.
Interesting. I don't find the sound of it soft at all. It is about as strong sounding as it could possibly be, with all the consonants and the -tr-and -st- combinations. So funny how people perceive names so differently. That's why I love this forum and interacting with people here. Thanks for sharing :) I do like Gabriel, too! And I find that one quite soft, as you said, but it is a completely different style from Tristan to me.
Tr- and -st are definitely part of what makes it "soft" for me! Well, maybe not 'soft' because it's a spiky sort of soft, but it's definitely not strong or solid. It's twinkly, sparkly, and glinty.
I would also consider Tristan the same style as Gabriel, Julian, and Sebastian!
I would also consider Tristan the same style as Gabriel, Julian, and Sebastian!
This message was edited 9/12/2024, 2:42 PM
I like it for a boy.
Only trouble is, when I first heard the name, when I was a kid and it wasn't common, I misheard it as Kristen.
Only trouble is, when I first heard the name, when I was a kid and it wasn't common, I misheard it as Kristen.
I love it objectively; it's strong and handsome and goes well with a lot of names I like. It would be in my top 10 if not for an unpleasant ex-boyfriend of mine with that name who ruined it for me. I don't think I'll ever be able to use it without thinking of him.
Still:
Tristan Xavier
Tristan Gideon
Tristan Rhys
Tristan Alexander
Leo Tristan
Still:
Tristan Xavier
Tristan Gideon
Tristan Rhys
Tristan Alexander
Leo Tristan
I like Tristan but don’t find it strong, which is why I like it—I imagine a morose (due to the triste-inspired spelling), brooding, bookish guy.
This message was edited 9/7/2024, 6:15 AM
Yes it' nice
Well, there's Tristan and Isolde, which is quite a good story. There's also Tristan da Cunha, which had to be evacuated in 1961 (volcanic activity) but was later resettled. But, if it is even in part derived from French triste, that counts against it.