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Girl first name-need your opinion
Trying to decide on baby name for daughter. We love Sloane and Maxine. For me, Maxine gets the edge as it honors a family member but I don't love the nn Max which I feel would be inevitable. I also feel like Sloane is so polarizing--is it pretty and strong or ugly? Would also love suggestions for middle names for both options (trying to avoid another "en/on/in" type sound since our last name is Christensen.
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Sloane, regardless of spelling, seems harsh for a girl. I've never met anyone named that but I would think of it as a boy's name only. If you set your foot down, it should be ok about Maxine. That worked for my SIL with my nephew, Michael. It was much less of an issue than she expected. Sloane Maxine sounds choppy. Maxine Sloane has too much of a "hissing" sound.
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I love Maxine. It's only 2 syllables, so a nickname isn't unavoidable. Sloane is really not my thing. Where Maxine is strong and feminine sounding, Sloane is strong but not feminine.
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I used to not like Sloane, but I don't mind it now. I think it definitely has a take charge vibe plus there's a slippery quality about it that makes it a good villain name but also could make it seem pretty in a silky shimmery way.I do prefer Maxine, and I think it's short enough that Max isn't inevitable.(I like some weird names, sorry if they're unrealistic)Maxine Cybele
Maxine Siofra
Maxine Vespera
Maxine Galla
Maxine Lorelei
Maxine Eloise
Maxine Birgitta
Maxine Theresa
Maxine Tamara
Maxine Dominique
Maxine Margot
Maxine Daisy
Maxine Esme
Maxine Leonie
Maxine Emmanuelle
Maxine Octavia
Maxine Demetria
Maxine Julia
Maxine Adela
Maxine CerysSloane Valkyrie
Sloane Kalliope
Sloane Medea

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I don't like either name, Maxine is better than Sloane, and I definitely wouldn't combine them. Your daughter needs a feminine mn. I also like the suggestion of Simone Mn Amy, Genevieve, Amelia, Chantal, Chelsea, Eliza, Elyse, Juliet, Naomi, Ruby, Ruth, Lucy, Lily, Susannah, Tessa, Cassandra, Vanessa, Yvette, Chloe, Zoe, Adele

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Maxine and Sloane are nice names, but they do sound very tomboyish. Maxine Sloane Christensen...a bit lispy, but not bad. You could use both if you want. If I could only choose one, it would be Maxine. It sounds more feminine. There are a number of female Maxes nowadays...I am fond of it. I don't like the Maxie option (maxi pad doesn't help). Or Xine. Maybe "distort" the name and go with Madge or Massie?I don't have any middle name suggestions, as I think most names do not flow well with either of them. Maxine Ariadne sounds forced. Maxine Elizabeth is cliche. Sloane Avery sounds like a boy. Sloane Diana and Sloane Arianne don't feel right..But I'm sure you'll figure it out. Congratulations and good luck with your child! :3

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Sloane is in my opinion literally the ugliest name on the planet.But I also think if you really, really hate a nickname, it's playing with fire to pick a name with that nickname. Even if you forestall it there's no knowing the kid won't one day decide for themselves they'd like to be called it. If you are ok with Max but just don't want to use it yourself Maxine may well be fine but if you truly just do not like it, maybe not.What do you think of Simone? Seems like a similar vibe and a blending of the sounds in both names.
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Just a thought -- there are so many boys named Alexander who go by Xander or Zander these days, why couldn't Xine or Zine (pronounced Zeen, rhyming with "seen") be a short form for Maxine?I myself do prefer Maxine to Sloane.
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I can't say I'm a fan of either, but slow and slimy Sloane is really not encouraging, and then there are or were Sloane Rangers; if Maxine is what you like, then go for it. She could well become Maxie rather than Max if you think that would be better - I do. And it might be easier to go by Maxine as an adult if she started from Maxie and not Max. But, Max can be somewhat neutralised by a really feminine mn: Maxine Florence
Maxine Belinda
Maxine Rosemary
Maxine Sylvia
Maxine Penelope
Maxine Clare
Maxine Isobel
Maxine Fiona
Maxine BeatriceI knew two Christensen sisters at school: Christine and Celia, and their aunt (our neighbour) was Karen. I liked all of the names.ETA: I also knew three Sloane sisters: Eileen, Ruth and Fiona. Ruth's mn is Catherine; I don't remember the others.

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I don't like either. Sloane has a really sludgy sound to it that I just can't stand, it's very heavy and dull. I absolutely don't find it pretty.Maxine is... every Maxine I've known has been quite unfeminine, either a tomboy or sort of frumpy. I do know a Maxine who doesn't go by Max, so it is possible... but Max is the only nn that really exists for it, so people are going to want to use it.
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They are both ugly ugly ugly, for different reasons. Maxine is harsh and sounds like a disinfectant spray that burns like fire when you put it on a scratch. Like Bactine but maxed. And little boy Maxes are a dime a dozen. (And dog and cat Maxes.)Sloan(e) sounds both dead-weight heavy and slimy, and has such a faux-blueblood-pretentious air about it. The sl sound isn't attractive.Put a gun to my head and I'd choose Maxine; at least everybody'd know I was a girl and it doesn't have slow in it.
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I like both names.I like the flow of Maxine Sloane.
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I love them both but was worried about using them both combined with the last name. the flow of "max-EEN, sl-OWN, christens-EN" sounds don't bother you?
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I think they're different enough that it's not awkward sounding together, although I think it would be fun to add a 2nd middle name without an N ending.
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It doesn't bother me at all. :)
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It doesn't bother me at all. :)
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I have a wonderful colleague named Maxine and she never gets called Max. Another colleague named her daughter Maxie (just that)I'm one of few here, I believe, that love the name Sloane. I can't remember the book, but I do remember loving the female character named Sloane. She was quite the spitfire, but with a big heart.
Maxine Sloane / Sloane Maxine both sound great :)
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