How interesting! I've only ever heard of the name being pronounced with a "soft s" sound, here in South
Carolina (at least, where I am). In fact, I had no idea that other people pronounced it with a "z" at all! I don't think "redneck" when I hear the pronunciation 'Wezley," but moreso of a
German accent (due to the fact that
German pronounces "S" like the letter "Z" in English, I believe). I agree with your preference on the softer "S" pronunciation for
Wesley, personally. Though, I guess I could also see it as "redneck" if I think about the (fairly redneck, imo!) nickname of "Weasel," lol. Thanks for telling me this info; I wonder how many people pronounce
Wesley as "Wezley"!