The spelling looks Dutch to me. According to the Dutch Surnames Database, however, this surname seems to originate from an other language: most likely German, since Frei was among the related surnames listed there. So, in short, Freij would be a 'dutchized' spelling of the German surname Frei (derived from German
frei "free"). Compare archaic (i.e. medieval) German
frey (and
freyheit,
freyheyt "freedom") and archaic (i.e. medieval) Dutch
vrey (and
vreyheyt,
vreyheit also "freedom"). There are more variant spellings (such as
freijheijt for medieval German, and
vreijheijt for medieval Dutch), since in medieval times, there wasn't a standard spelling and many people were not proficient in writing - but I won't go further into that. However, this definitely makes one see how closely related Dutch and German are, especially in medieval times.
Either way, in modern German, it's
frei and
freiheit, and in modern Dutch, it's
vrij and
vrijheid. You see that German has an f- where Dutch has a v-, which makes it even more likely that the surname is German in origin. It looks like one of your earliest ancestors originated from Germany, then settled in The Netherlands (or Flanders) - and after a while of living there, the surname became Freij (unless it already was Freij, as a medieval German variant spelling of Frey) - like I said before, there wasn't a standard spelling in medieval times). This kind of thing happened all the time back in the day. A surname's spelling only became permanent (in most of continental Europe) after Napoléon introduced the civil registry at the end of the 18th century.
But to make a long story short, this surname is most likely German in origin (and if not, then it's Dutch in origin - I guess it all depends on where your earliest known ancestor came from, long before one of his descendants emigrated to the USA) and its meaning is definitely "free".
Well, I hope that helped. :)
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This message was edited 11/14/2010, 4:27 AM