I like JACK-oh-bee and juh-COH-bee. JAKE-oh-bee sounds wrong to my ears. And
Jack as a nickname is such a yawn--Jacoby in full is leagues more interesting.
Of your list, I like best Jacoby
Nathaniel pronounced juh-COH-bee and Jacoby
Reid prn. JACK-oh-bee. The others are fine, but they aren't jumping out at me.
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