I've always assumed that Jesminder / Jasminder is a combination of the word/name
Jasmine with the name of the god
Indra (like
Rupinder,
Harinder, etc.), so the -inder spelling is the only one that I would use- it would seem disrespectful otherwise, IMO. It's a very pretty name, though, and definitely better than
Jessica.
Shannon
Edited to clarify about -inder.
This message was edited 10/3/2004, 1:32 PM