I know I am going against the grain, but I think the nicknames Thea, Thora, Theora, Theda and Dora are HIDEOUS (especially given the other possibilities). I would rather call her by the full Theodora than these awkward derangements.
I do, however, adore both Teddy and Theo for a girl. I am not as opposed as most of you [with such great virulence] to girls having traditionally male nicknames as long as there is a feminine formal name to fall back on. I rather like it, and so does my entire family who are name elitists. Teddy especially is suitably soft and fabulously catchy for a woman in my view. Theo is more daring, but still very stylish and extraordinarily sharp for a woman. I would allow either or both.
This message was edited 3/17/2008, 7:12 AM