Tavia feels like two syllables to me, TAYV-ya. It fits in really well, I agree, but that's part of why I dislike it.
My namenerdiess is part of my nicknaming policy, and it's really most of it when it comes to Minne and
Rudy for
Minerva and
Rudolf. I really do think that
Minerva and
Rudolf would get teased almost incessantly if they didn't have nice comfortable nicknames to sit back on.
My desire for nicknames for
Octavia is simply because I like
Octavia written and said about five or six times - heck, I
love it - but before too long I start to feel a bit silly. The same thing happens with
Cordelia, but
Cordelia can easily become
Corrie,
Delia, or
Della for a few minutes.
Octavia would become Octy, Tave, or Tavia. Octy is ridiculous and Tavia is so damn SWEET! Tave and Tavy are both really
cool sounding, you know? like
Jade and
Maeve and Tay and all of these self-important, long-A heavy trendy floppy pseudo-names that infuriate me so much. (Occy wouldn't be that bad actually.)
Hee hee nudy rudy! Maybe that is what his wife will call him.
I like a lot of
Cordelia's nn's. I am curious about what you mean when you say you dislike them. Do you dislike ALL of them or just permanent ones, or the concept of planned ones? I can definitely understand hating planned ones. Someone used to post about
Ceridwen "Poet" and that made me want to punch everyone.
Zelda Lenore "Poe," as much as I love Clippy's combos, also makes me a bit sad. I think they should come naturally. When I browse nickname ideas I try to think of what would come naturally if I were addressing an
Octavia. I am trying to figure out whether there are enough of these names that I like that I wouldn't mind having an
Octavia. KWIM?
Aw I like
Mimi :)
My mother put me on
Mimi actually, she wanted to name all of us
Amelia "
Mimi" but Dad said it sounded too much like a disease. Then
Mimi started appealling to me. Aww sweet
Mimi!
Adelaide would probably be
Adelaide most of the time and
Addy some of the time. But I also like
Octavia. (A few other names are struggling up for #3 too.
Lucretia most notably.)
Thanks!