That makes sense.
Here's the odd thing for me:
I have no problem honoring
Judie,
Hulda and
Helen because they embody qualities I like. I do have problems honoring my dad and people I know personally - because I
know them too well. It's almost as if I would be honoring all of the person, including the bad. With the three above I'm honoring the spirit of adventure and doing what you want, so perhaps it's not strictly family honoring. I don't know - this has been a fascinating conversation that has made me do a lot of thinking.