[Opinions] Re: blood isn't everything... edited
"But I am not who I am today because of anything he or his ancestors and their DNA did"
Yes, you are. If your DNA were any different you would be someone else. I'm not saying this in defence of using deceases relatives names or to disagree that "blood isn't everything" in regard to who you identify as family, but whether you like it or not your father's sperm donation very much contributed to who exactly you are and had his part of the family procreated any differently, you would not exist